Do you believe in guilt by association? I certainly don’t believe in it absolutely. But these old sayings persist because they have merit.
“You are known by the company you keep.”
“Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.”
“If you run with the wolves you’ll learn how to howl”
“Birds of a feather flock together”
“Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships. If you run with
wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you
will learn how to soar to great heights.”
“A mirror reflects a man’s face, but what he is really like is shown by the
kind of friends he chooses.”
“The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you
closely associate – for the good and the bad.”
Note: Be not mistaken. This is applicable to family as well as friends.
Yes…do love, appreciate and be thankful for your family, for they will
always be your family no matter what. Just know that they are human first
and though they are family to you, they may be a friend to someone else and
will fit somewhere in the criteria above.
We don’t know much about Courtney Roberts mostly because Courtney has never chosen to speak out for Ayla. Her friends are amazingly close mouthed. I have never in 2+ years read a comment from one of her friends vouching for her character.
Can we tell anything about Courtney from the company she keeps? The Coincidences post submitted by Anon might possibly tell us something about her character.
There seem to be a lot of Lamour’s and Robert’s who have had major run- ins with the law. These are the people who Courtney grew up with and around. These types of people are who guided her and shaped her future.
But we can’t pick our relatives; we’re born into the family and stuck with them. As we grow older and realize the folly of their ways we can however continue to love them while we distance ourselves from them to protect ourselves and our families.
From the Coincidences post:
Sasha Lamour: arrested April 12, 2012,violating conditions of release, harassment by telephone, failure to appear. Facebook friends with Christopher Brichetto. Related to Courtney and Briana. Courtney and Sasha communicate regularly in social media.
Briana Lamour Roberts: arrested January 9, 2012, aggravated drug trafficking in oxycodone and cocaine. Head of operation Christopher Brichetto.
Christopher Brichetto: arrested January 18, 2013, unlawful trafficking Schedule D substances. Documents sealed?
Christopher Brichetto: civil contempt Feb. 6, 2013, refusing to testify before grand jury. Facebook friends with Natalie Kay Reisinger (Courtney and Briana’s sister), Russell Lamour, Jr., Joanna Lamour, Sasha Lamour, Hayden Lamour, and Shawn Lamour. Facebook friend with Michael Leavitt (named in sealed indictment above); Leavitt also Facebook friends with Russell Lamour, Jr. and Shawn Lamour.
“Birds of a feather flock together”
Remember the quote above?
Note: Be not mistaken. This is applicable to family as well as friends.
Yes…do love, appreciate and be thankful for your family, for they will
always be your family no matter what. Just know that they are human first
and though they are family to you, they may be a friend to someone else and
will fit somewhere in the criteria above.
Yes they are family but the associations they have can have an impact on you.
She seems to have maintained her contact with these family members. A lot, the majority, have an association with Chris Bruchetto. Courtney apparently didn’t mind having a direct, non familial association with criminals either.
Courtney lived in the same building as her sister Briana. Briana was dealing for Chris Brichetto. Courtney was also friends with Chris Brichetto as evidenced by these old tweets. Courtney’s twitter account is locked so we can’t see what she says but Chris’s account is public for anyone to see.
Chris Brichetto @Bossman_Titty 9 Sep 2011
Chilling at @CNaylee crib
…
8:07 PM – 6 Dec 2011 · Details
Courtney Roberts @CNaylee Protected Tweets
@CNaylee’s account is protected.
Chris Brichetto @Bossman_Titty 6 Dec 2011
@CNaylee sure what kind
Courtney Roberts @CNaylee Protected Tweets
@CNaylee’s account is protected.
Chris Brichetto @Bossman_Titty 6 Dec 2011
@CNaylee ok ill call u when I’m close
Before anyone gets the wrong idea, I’m not trying to imply that Courtney was setting up a “buy” from Chris Brichetto with the last tweet. She could have been asking him to bring her a soda or an ice cream for all I know. I’m including these so people can see they were, at least at this point, friends. Good enough friends to “chill at her crib”.
Contact with her goes back to 2010 on twitter and he had apparently been arrested before this latest arrest for trafficking and contempt as evidenced by his tweets.
Chris Brichetto@Bossman_Titty15 Nov 2010
Off to court to get sentenced
Chris Brichetto@Bossman_Titty24 May 2011
who ever does the release dates at the jail is so stupid they keep changing my release date wow!
After reading all this information over, here’s where I stand on Courtney. I had my doubts in the beginning that Courtney was involved in this mess at all. Then I thought she probably was involved in some manner but was afraid of Justin therefore was afraid to tell what she might know. Now, seeing who Courtney has surrounded herself with and associates with, I don’t have as much of a problem believing she might be involved in some way. I certainly don’t think anymore that she was afraid of Justin. Justin is a scared little bully. Courtney’s associates are hardened and mean. If Justin did Courtney wrong I don’t think she would have any problem finding people willing and able to kick his ass or worse.
Knowing that Courtney associated with the likes of Christopher Brichetto and seeing the criminal pasts (and present) of some of her close family members, has your opinion of Courtney changed?
Someone needs to speak out for Ayla. Maybe someone who gets caught up in one of the many drug arrests that have been happening in Maine will tell what they know and cut a deal. The wall of silence has to end.
Maine State Police Tip Line – 207-624-7076
mountain mama
May 3, 2014 at 12:43 am
Thank you for this post Dee. Knowing what we know now about Courtney, I question again why she dropped the assault against Justin and refused to cooperate. I also question what their argument was about. Why was Justin so angry?
mountain mama
May 3, 2014 at 12:45 am
Please light a candle for Ayla ❤
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=ayla
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=ARAA
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=WIA
CG
May 3, 2014 at 9:28 am
This post is one of the most enlightening, Dee. I now wonder if Courtney’s presence when Ayla was reported missing was to protect some other interest.
Lee
May 3, 2014 at 1:12 pm
Why they would have a non-family member present if Ayla was already gone has always bothered me. Girl friends do not always stay girlfriends. Should there be a falling out, as has happened, Courtney would always be a threat to some extent. . . . . Unless they have a hold of some sort on her.
mountain mama
May 3, 2014 at 8:48 pm
I wish we knew if Ayla was already gone by the time Courtney got there.
Chicky
May 3, 2014 at 9:16 pm
Haendel Lamour Protected Tweets
@The_Boss207
I luv hard but if u cross me I hate hard
Chicky
May 3, 2014 at 2:26 pm
If nothing else, courtneys crime is being so cold hearted that she won’t even say a word about little Ayla. Was it said that she attended the church vigil/funeral but left rather quickly and went to the car?
I find her silence concerning Ayla despicable and heartless.
CG
May 3, 2014 at 9:08 pm
Dee, the twitter account shows how close Brichetto is to many of Courtney’s relatives, not just her. In addition to his communications with Courtney, he is tweeting with Briana, Igloo Lamour, Vanessa Lamour, Splash Lamour, Haendel Lamour, Gaenslie Lamour, Russell Lamour, Jr., Adrienne Lamour, Kerwin Lamour, Hayden Lamour, and Natalie Reisinger (Courtney’s sister). They go out together all the time, it seems, give each other rides places, visit each other’s houses. This is an entrenched relationship.
mountain mama
May 3, 2014 at 9:20 pm
Yup wonder if any of them put up flyers for Ayla?
Lee
May 3, 2014 at 9:20 pm
Does anyone know where all these connections live? Are they concentrated in Portland?
CG
May 3, 2014 at 9:31 pm
Yes, Portland, Lee.
mountain mama
May 3, 2014 at 9:34 pm
Yea Lee where Courtney’s “family and support network” is.
mountain mama
May 3, 2014 at 9:35 pm
^ According to Angela.
Lee
May 3, 2014 at 9:46 pm
So did Justin tuck his tail and run back to Waterville?
Dee
May 5, 2014 at 12:09 pm
I apologize for not responding earlier. I had a very busy weekend and was reading here but not responding.
I agree CG. It’s a very entrenched relationship. I didn’t realize at first who Briana was in all the tweets I was reading. He was tweeting with many of the Lamour’s regularly. They were going out to dinner, movies, clubs regularly.
321
May 4, 2014 at 12:07 am
What if and I said IF: the decision to get Ayla was a quick one because of threats to Justin because he owed the network monies. A rush decision and the text to Trista of someone taking Ayla from him? What if he was “in the hole” with a criminal network ? Just something to think about. It was strange that after Justin moved and Ayla went missing the other roomies packed up and split that rent. Were there threats being made over monies owed?
Lee
May 4, 2014 at 12:13 am
Hi 321.
Finding out more about the people surrounding the principle characters of Ayla’s case makes a lot of things seem more possible than before.
primarytchr
May 4, 2014 at 9:24 am
Is anyone else now reconsidering the reasons behind the LIP?
Does anyone think that if DHHS had done a background check, a connection would have been made to Courtney’s “network” and Ayla would not have been placed there?
I tend to think not because Courtney and Justin were not living together in Waterville, but I”m not sure.
CG
May 4, 2014 at 9:54 am
primarytchr, when you say reconsidering the reasons behind the LIP, what option(s) are you thinking are possibly more likely now?
primarytchr
May 4, 2014 at 11:02 am
CG,
I hope this posts. It’s my third attempt.
I am thinking that the information about Courtney that has come out over the last few days has firmly established that there is an extensive web of connections between Justin’s girlfriend and her family, and that Justin had easy access to drugs.
Therefore, I am giving more consideration to Peter’s analysis of the reasons that Justin bought the LIP. Here is the link.
http://statement-analysis.blogspot.com/2013/02/ayla-reynolds-life-insurance-motive.html
mountain mama
May 4, 2014 at 1:01 pm
I’m sorry PT I just found your comments in the spam folder. I just approved the last one rather than have duplicates.
Lee
May 4, 2014 at 5:41 pm
Thank you for the link PT. I haven’t read this one before. I’m not sure if I agree with Peter’s opinion. The LIP still seems too small of a reward for the risk taken, not to mention the shoddy way of being performed and covered up. With as remote places as Maine has within a short distance, why choose you home as the place?
Lee
May 4, 2014 at 5:41 pm
Of course, people have been killed for less.
Lee
May 4, 2014 at 9:54 am
I don’t know PT. I’ve always thought that the LIP was too small to be a real factor for anything. Too little money for laundering, too small a reward for the risks involved if taken for a quick windfall.
I doubt if a backgroung check would have been that comprehensive. I don’t have a lot of faith in DHHS anyway.
CG
May 4, 2014 at 11:14 am
I wonder if we need to get back to KISS, Lee. Instead of money laundering and criminal conspiracies, how about:
Hanging out with the wrong element can be stressful.
An unhealthy lifestyle, partying all the time, etc., not having a lot of meaning or accomplishment in life, can be stressful.
Moving back home with mom when you’re in your mid-twenties can be stressful even in good relationships.
Taking on full-time childcare all of a sudden when you’ve had limited experience with your baby and are used to a bachelor lifestyle can be stressful.
Custody disputes (possibly fueled by granny’s apparent unwillingness to have the baby’s mom in the baby’s life) can be stressful.
Living up to the expectations of a girlfriend (who, among other demands, may want you to have no contact with your baby’s mom) can be stressful.
A troubled relationship with your baby’s mom can be stressful.
Did the pressure cooker conditions get triggered by something, causing an eruption? If anything threatened Justin, could it have been the never-ending demands and a perceived inability to meet or change them? Did something push him over the edge? I don’t know the answer. But given the prior injuries, “unintentional” as they may have been,
Lee
May 4, 2014 at 11:21 am
You didn’t mention having a girlfriend and maintaining a secretive relationship with your “one night stand” when your girlfriends friends and family wouldn’t be impressed with your brother and his mini bat.
mountain mama
May 4, 2014 at 12:33 pm
If we apply KISS to Courtney’s presence and unwillingness to tell what she knows even after she and Justin are no longer together, what do we come up with?
CG
May 4, 2014 at 12:45 pm
MM. what I come up with immediately is bad news for Courtney.
Dee
May 5, 2014 at 12:14 pm
Exactly. I think Phoebe added to the pressure cooker when she pushed Justin to be a hands on full time Dad. I don’t think it was something he was ready for or desired for himself.
Chicky
May 4, 2014 at 11:14 am
I doubt that DHS in any state checks the background of friends (girlfriends or otherwise) of friends. So I doubt that they check relatives and friends of justins girlfriend courtney.
I would imagine, or think they should, check the criminal history of anyone living in a house where a child will be living.
Do I think they handled this badly or probably broke some rules, yes. I have heard horror stories from other states as well and I think something drastic needs to change and that those who shirk their duties to do everything within their power to keep children safe should be fired and punished as a criminal.
mountain mama
May 4, 2014 at 3:55 pm
The new post “Ayla’s Pappa’s Frustration” is up please continue to comment here as well.
cathodec
May 26, 2015 at 7:37 pm
Sorry if I’m in the wrong place … So this guy that was just arrested for heroin in Portland – he related to these folks at all?
Dee
May 26, 2015 at 7:47 pm
Who cathodec? Can you link an article?
mountain mama
May 26, 2015 at 8:06 pm
This? http://www.pressherald.com/2015/05/26/portland-police-swat-team-on-scene-in-east-deering/
“The house and yard, which is surrounded by a chain-link fence, was purchased by Isely and Haendel Lamour in 2004. It’s unclear what relationship they have to Kerwin Lamour.”
Dee
May 26, 2015 at 8:09 pm
Ah, them again. Yup, related to Courtney.
Dee
May 26, 2015 at 8:10 pm
Thanks MM.
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